Your inner dissatisfaction continually motivates you to higher levels of achievement. The fact is, you probably do not give yourself as much credit as you deserve.
For this reason, you may doubt that you can really please your lover and give her sexual and emotional satisfaction.
In this area you must simply rely on your lover to tell you honestly whether or not he or she desires more than you are giving, for you are not a very accurate judge yourself.
Although you may always strive for improvement and imagine a better future, do not let that prevent you from enjoying the fruits of your loving in the present.